Poached? To go or to stay?

Am I really poached internally or is he juz asking for fun?

Should I go or should I stay? If I'm not poached but I asked and rejected, will my life turn for the better or worse?

Hmm...am getting more and more tired and restless about my job...
Am I reaching the point that I'm losing the interest in my job, in the industry or juz the company?

Will changing a job scope or even a new company help? Will I be able to stay long in another company doing completely different things?