有意义的故事

今天在check e-mail 看到这则故事便想与大家分享。看完之后好好想想吧。

路遥知马力

话说路遥和马力是好朋友，路遥父亲是富商，马力的父亲是路遥家的仆人。虽然是主仆关系，两人的关系很好。他们一起读书，一起玩耍。到了该谈婚论嫁的年龄了，路遥有钱有势，不愁没老婆。而马力贫困潦倒，一直没人提亲。 有一天有媒 人给马力提亲，马力大喜，但是却要昂贵的彩礼。马力只好请同学路遥帮助，路遥说﹕借钱可以，但是结婚入洞房我来替你前三天。马力怒火冲头，但是又没有办法，总不能光棍一辈子，只好答应。于是选择好日子结婚。马力煎熬过痛苦的三天，第四天该他洞房了，心里懊恼呀！天一黑就一头栽进洞房拉被蒙头就睡觉。新娘子就问：夫君，为何前三夜都是通宵读书，今天却蒙头大睡？马力这才知道路遥给他开了个大玩笑，真实又喜又恼。被有钱的朋友给耍了。发誓好好读书，考取功名。后来还真考上了并在京城做了大官。 路遥性 情豪放，侠肝义胆，最后却坐吃山空。看到自己一家实在无法度日，想起曾经资助的朋友马力，于是就和老婆商量自己进京找他帮助。马力见到路遥很是高兴，热情款待，路遥说明来意，马力却说：喝酒！喝酒！根本没有帮助他的意思，路遥很恼。过了几天，马力说：路兄，你回家吧，免得嫂夫人牵挂！路遥只得气愤沮丧的回家。 还没进家就 听见家里哭成一片，急忙进来。看到妻儿守着一口棺材痛哭，一见路遥进来家人又惊又 喜。原来是马力派人送来棺材说：路遥到京城后，生了重病，医治无效而死！路遥更加 恼怒，打开棺材一看里面是金银财物，还有一纸条上写：你让我妻守三天空房，我让你 妻痛哭一场。 感言 : 真正的朋友不在巧言令色 , 贵在心犀相通 ,人生短短数十载 , 认识的朋友又有多少 ,但真正能懂你心 , 又能真心疼惜得又有几人 ?

若是你很幸运 ,已经有这样真挚的好友

Quiting...

Todae 洁 told mi she tendering...and she realli did...hai~mon onwards i will haf 1 less fren in e SHIT office liao...so sad~~~although im happy fer her...but i cant help feelin sad too...

so mny pple haf left...still mny more pple goin to leave...why am i still here??????? (-_-)'''

anione has a good job to offer or intro??? pls let mi noe...get mi out of tius shity place pple...HELP!!! desperately needed!!!

help help!!

新发型...新认知...新领悟...

我昨天剪了头发，觉得好轻松哦。This is how i look now...

This is my front view....

This is back view....

哈哈，真开心，说要剪头发，说了这么久，昨天终于实行了。发型师好帅哦！哈哈。。。

oki oki...wanna blog abt sumting else actualli....

一年前，当我的company从破惨中步出时，他们给了每一为员工2张来回机票。我以都用掉了。因为不知道这种票不能累积旅程，所以我们大多数已使用的人都有累积。上个星期，有人因为个人无聊又幼稚的理由，跑去跟那陀‘大便’投诉我们。搞得鸡飞狗跳。

虽然现在已没什么问题了，但是此人的做法真的很令人发指。真的再一次让我打从心底瞧不起她。为了和某人争权夺位，而把无辜人们给拖下水，即无聊也无耻。

我们一致认同此人绝对不能当知心朋友，不是连朋友都不能当。没朋友也绝不能找她。

Changes evi single min

This morning when i went to work, straight away im told by 公公 that he will ne tendering today, and true enough he tendered in the later part of the day. Realli, changes sure take places as n when, and most of it is unexpected. Not that im saying his tendering was not expected, but well...not so soon i guess...

Always thotz i would tender be4 he does...but well seems like im not fast enough to be ahead or on par wif these changes...whu will it be nxt? mi? 服? 姐? 沙拉? or sumone else....

But recently im tinking, shld i convert back to answering calls or juz stay at ticketing...hmm...well too mny problems...too much DOUBLE job to do...makes mi sick n tired of goin to work...

Evione in e office (besides my click) makes mi wanna puke...so sick!

Updates....

hai~realli is a long time since i blogged...

原本已原谅的人，竟然又来踩我的尾巴。实在是，熟可忍孰不可忍。所以我决定不再理她，也不再把她当朋友或同事，只当她是透明人。真的很令人失望。做了近两年的‘朋友’，到了今天才看清楚了她这可人。确实只能说我有眼无珠，没有看人的本事。以后真的要多加小心，以免再次无交损友。

但是从这里便可知她真的是个胆小鬼，又很小人。明明我要找的根本不是她，这也不管她的事，却硬要干涩。然后又不敢和我面对面的理论，只敢跟个小人一样的在我背后同他人投诉。要是有种，有本事就不需要如此假咯。Hypocrite Sia!!! 自以为了不起。。。(-_-)"' 真令人受不了。

不提她了。。。说点其他的吧。hmm...这次又换工作行程表咯。第一个还是令人不满意到了几点哪，好在后来改了。不然我还真的得提交辞呈了。不过现在应该还能再撑个一两个月吧。希望到时后有我想既能做的工咯。哈哈。 (^_^)

不说公司了。爷爷离开也已经一个多月了。(!_!) 还是很想他，向他的一颦一笑，想他的幽默，向他吃饭的身影，想他说话的声音，想他所有。尤其想念他活着的迹象。在家里走动的样子，写字的坐姿，拿毛笔的姿式。休息时的休闲，看电视时偶尔的调侃。一切的一切都如此的让我想念，怀念，思念到不行。(-_-)

爷爷，如果您知道，请如梦一聚吧，(*_*)zzzz 来看看如此想念，如此爱您的孙女吧。爷爷。。。(T_T)

献给最敬爱的爷爷！

Dedicated to my Beloved 爷爷。Photos of him....in fond memories of 爷爷...I MISSED SO MUCH! since his departure.... (T_T)

mi n yeye in his rm...

yeye in e livinrm in china - first nite there

mi n yeye 2nd time in china

my mama n aunties wif yeye plus e little devil which my yeye lkes alot...

yeye - while waiting to watch e fireworks

Dedicated to my Beloved 爷爷。

于2008年4月11日凌晨2.20 致2.25 之间去世。

没有您在身边的日子真的好难过。爷爷，不知您是以什么心情离开我们，但是可以肯定的是绝对有许多的不舍得，如同我们一样的不舍。

我唯一希望的就是，您走得安心，走得放心。我们一定会找您的遗书所写的去做。经量减少真吵，经常往来。每星期最少见一次，以方便联系，以及维系我们之间的感情。

有很多话想说却不知如何开口。爷爷，我知道您与景天凌晨议会来看我们。不能与您聊天，见是我的遗憾。但是知道您回来过，又免不了开心。

请您千万要放心，虽然我们会很想您，但是我们却不希望您不放心。您与爸爸将永远在我心中。
我们会永远怀念您。我爱您！

请您有空一定要回来探望我们，或是托梦给我们。我们都很想在梦里与您相会。my family with yeye in china

e kids with yeye outside his rm (be4 he came to singapore)

yeye waiting to drink tea...chatting wif relatives

yeye's rm (donation to school, thus classrm was named after him)

yeye n his sister at his birthday dinner celebration

e kids with yeye n xiao lau gu

more photos nxt time....

Betrayal...Cancer...Pain...Tears...

Firstly, tks val fer ur concern...sorry for not replyin ur sms but writing here...cuz im scare tt if u ask mi any qns i might start crying again when i had a hard time stopping myself...

Guys, i noe u r all concern abt mi n my yeye...tks loads...but pls pardon my lack of concern or friendliness to ani of u...cuz now im realli juz concentratin on my yeye...Sorry...

I always thotz tt tis fren of my will not betray mi...but im wrong...but right now...nuting is more painful then lookin at my yeye suffer in pain...n signin out loud...todae we went to e hosp again! it's another dae "wasted" there...

looking at him gettin onto e trolley bed n layin there is such a torture...he's so WEAK tt he cant even stand on his own...i was lookin at him...n i thotz i saw tears in his eyes...he was lookin so helpless n tired...i don noe if it's juz mi or realli there's tears in his eyes...but it realli pain mi to see him suffering lke tis...

u noe...juz not long ago mi n my jie were saying tt although yeye is in pain, he haf a VERY stong will to live on...but tis morning when i saw him...he practically had given up...he don wanna eat animore...we had to force him to eat...breakfast, lunch n dinner...he had no more strengh to even hold e spoon or e bowl which he still could yesterdae...

im corssing my fingers, hoping n praying that some how he would find in himself e courage n strength to bring back his will to live, to eat, to drink, to tok, to laugh, and definitely to WALK! or maybe juz some waes to minimise his pain...his now on morphine...im hopin he could get well enough to be off it...

Pple, im callin out to u guys again to PLEASE pray for him...he realli nn all e help n blessings he can get...i will be VERY thankful to all of you! N please gif mi strength to walk thru all tis wif him...support him...

YEYE, I LOVE YOU!